Baby registry checklist: what to ask for, stage by stage
A registry works well when it follows your baby's first year: what you need on day one, what takes over when swaddling stops, and what arrives with first foods.
Updated October 13, 2026 · sources checked October 13, 2026
In short
Build the registry in three stages. From birth: a crib or bassinet meeting federal standards, a firm flat mattress, a rear-facing car seat, swaddles, diapering and bath basics. Around 3 to 4 months: sleep sacks replace swaddles once your baby tries to roll. Around 6 months: a high chair, an open cup and first-food gear. Leave off bumpers, inclined sleepers, weighted sleep products and teething necklaces.
How to use this list
Guests love choosing small gifts; the items that carry safety requirements (sleep space, car seat) deserve precise wording on the registry. Write the feature you need, not just the category: "crib meeting federal safety standards", "rear-facing car seat". If you are in the UK, the equivalent marks are BS EN 716 for cots and R129 (i-Size) or R44 for car seats, as listed by the NHS on our newborn essentials checklist.
Stage 1: birth to 3 months
| Item | Spec to write on the registry | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Crib, bassinet, play yard or bedside sleeper | meets federal requirements for infant sleep | CPSC, AAP |
| Mattress | firm, flat, does not indent, fits snugly | AAP |
| Fitted sheets | several, nothing else in the crib | CPSC |
| Swaddles | thin, not weighted, loose enough at the hips | AAP |
| Sleep sacks (wearable blankets) | for warmth instead of loose blankets | AAP |
| Rear-facing car seat | used from the first ride home | AAP |
| Infant bath tub | hard plastic, sloped and textured or with a sling | AAP |
| Diapering | diapers, wipes or cotton wool, barrier cream, changing mat | NHS |
| Digital thermometer | for under-arm readings | NHS |
Swaddles are for the first weeks only. Our swaddling guide explains how to wrap with room for the hips and the exact moment to stop.
Stage 2: around 3 to 6 months
| Item | Why now | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Sleep sacks in the next size and a warmer and lighter weight | the AAP says stop swaddling when your baby looks like they are trying to roll, usually around 3 to 4 months, sometimes earlier | AAP |
| Firm rubber teether, not liquid-filled | the FDA's recommended alternative to teething gels and jewelry; never frozen | FDA |
| Convertible car seat (if you started with an infant-only seat) | rear-facing as long as possible; many convertible seats allow rear-facing for 2 years or more | AAP |
| Soft play mat for tummy time (useful from the first weeks) | the AAP advises working up to at least 15 to 30 minutes of tummy time a day by 7 weeks | AAP |
How to pick the right sleep sack weight for your room is explained in our sleep sack and TOG guide.
Stage 3: around 6 to 12 months
| Item | Why now | Source |
|---|---|---|
| High chair or feeding seat | before solids, your baby should sit in a high chair or feeding seat with good head control | AAP |
| Open cup or free-flow cup without a valve | the NHS advises sips of water from an open or free-flow cup at meals from around 6 months | NHS |
| Baby spoons and a floor mat | the NHS encourages letting your baby try feeding themselves | NHS |
| Covers and storage for small objects | coins, button batteries, marbles, small balls, balloons and pen caps are choking hazards | AAP |
When and how to begin solids, by spoon or finger foods, is in our starting solids guide.
Keep these off the registry
| Product | What the safety bodies say | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Crib bumpers and padded liners | soft objects that can block breathing; federal ban on sale in the US | CPSC, AAP |
| Inclined sleepers, rockers, gliders, swings used for sleep | anything inclined more than 10 degrees should never be used for infant sleep | CPSC, AAP |
| Sleep positioners and wedges | listed among soft objects that create a suffocation risk | CPSC |
| Weighted blankets, sleepers or swaddles | do not use them | AAP, CPSC |
| Amber or other teething necklaces and bracelets | the FDA has received reports of deaths and serious injuries, including strangulation and choking | FDA |
| Benzocaine or lidocaine teething gels | the FDA says they should not be used for teething pain in children | FDA |
| Monitors sold as preventing SIDS | the AAP says there is no evidence they reduce SIDS | AAP |
What can wait
Toys, a big wardrobe of newborn sizes, and most gadgets can be decided after you meet your baby. The AAP also reminds parents that a higher price does not mean a car seat is safer: the right seat is the one that fits your child, fits your car and is installed correctly every time.
Questions parents ask
What are the real baby registry must-haves?
A safe sleep space with a firm flat mattress and fitted sheets, a rear-facing car seat, swaddles or sleep sacks, diapering supplies, an infant tub and a digital thermometer. Everything else depends on your home and lifestyle.
Should I register for a convertible car seat from the start?
Many families start with a rear-facing-only seat, but the AAP notes that convertible seats often allow rear-facing riding for 2 years or more. Either way, the rule is rear-facing as long as the seat's limits allow.
Which baby products are unsafe to put on a registry?
Crib bumpers, inclined sleepers, sleep positioners, nests that do not meet federal sleep standards, weighted blankets or swaddles, bath seats and teething necklaces. The AAP, CPSC, FDA and NHS all warn against them.
When does my baby need a high chair?
Around 6 months, when solid foods start. The AAP says your baby should be able to sit in a high chair or feeding seat with good head control before starting solids.
Sources
- AAP HealthyChildren — How to Keep Your Sleeping Baby Safe, AAP Policy Explained checked October 13, 2026
- U.S. CPSC — Safe Sleep, cribs and infant products information center checked October 13, 2026
- AAP HealthyChildren — Car Seats, Information for Families checked October 13, 2026
- U.S. FDA — Safely Soothing Teething Pain in Infants and Children checked October 13, 2026
- AAP HealthyChildren — Starting Solid Foods checked October 13, 2026
- NHS weaning guide — What to feed your baby from around 6 months checked October 13, 2026
- AAP HealthyChildren — Choking Prevention for Babies and Children checked October 13, 2026
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